Anger is a feeling that has to be recognized outright. Anger could
be a start of something deeper, like rage or violent actions and
reactions. You’ve got to control your anger, because it has the ability
to control you.
Anger is best recognized and best controlled if
it is more understood. The first step in better understanding anger is
to know what the types of anger are. If you know the cause of your
anger, the better you can combat it. Here are the types of anger and a
short description of what they are.
1. Behavioral Anger. This
type of anger is comprised of aggressive and cruel actions. It inclines
mostly on the physical aspect. It usually implies an attack towards the
subject of the anger, usually a person. It is expressed through
trouble-making, physical attack and defiance.
2. Verbal anger.
This type of anger, on the other hand, merely uses words and not
actions. It is expressed mostly by openly speaking insulting words and
hurtful criticisms. Accusing somebody of a crime or of a wrong-doing is
also an example of verbal anger.
3. Passive Anger. Passive anger
is shown mostly through mockery, or through avoiding a certain
instance. People who are displaying this type of anger are not showing
their anger outright but are devising covert ways of expressing it.
They do not confront a person or a situation.
4. Self-inflicted
anger. This type of anger is the one that is directed toward a person’s
own body. Sometimes, people showing this type of anger tend to starve
themselves or eat too much, for example. These are the people into the
idea of punishing their own self for something wrong they have done.
5.
Chronic anger. People with chronic anger are just angry in general.
They are angry with their lives, with their selves, with the people
around them and the whole world in general. They don’t necessarily have
a definite reason why. Most of the time, they are just angry for
apparently no reason at all.
6. Judgmental anger. This type of
anger would lead somebody to hurtfully shame the people around him,
like his family, friends and neighbors. He expresses his anger by
putting others down and belittling their abilities as a person.
7.
Overwhelmed anger. This type of anger is seen on people that hate the
situations happening around them that directly affect their lives. They
usually shout or lash out at someone or something easily. They do so
because that’s their way of relieving the stress and the pain they are
feeling.
8. Constructive anger. This type of anger is the type
that makes people want to go out and join groups and movements. And
they usually do it because they wanted to do something to correct a
certain situation. They wanted to make a positive change. And that’s
the main effect of this type of anger.
9. Volatile Anger. This
type of anger is the one that easily comes and goes. The magnitude of
this anger varies too. It could build into a rage, or it could be a
mild, sudden anger. It could explode abruptly, or it could go unseen.
It all depends on the person controlling the anger. This type is
expressed either by verbal or physical assault.
10. Retaliatory
anger. This type of anger is the most common one. Usually people get
angry because other people are angry at them. This anger depends mainly
on the other person. If your anger is due to a person lashing out at
you, then you are guilty of this type of anger.
11. Paranoid
Anger. This anger arises if a person feels, in an irrational way, that
they are intimidated by others. People with this type of anger feel and
think that other people wanted to take what is rightfully theirs. They
are angry toward that person because, for one, they are jealous.
12.
Deliberate Anger. This type of anger is shown by people who would like
to gain control over a situation. They are mostly not angry at first.
But they will be once you have shown that you are against what they
have planned and what they would like to happen. They use anger to gain
power over somebody or something.
These are the most common types of anger. Determine what type your anger is. Then harness it accordingly.